From few weeks,i was waffling over a question and in the end decided to share it with everyone.
Maybe someone would come up with an answer!!!
A few weeks ago,i was randomly switching over channels on my idiot box.Suddenly,i came through this repeat telecast of koffee with karan with Shahrukh Khan invited over for chat.Atlast,this ceased my habit of flipping over channels endlessly for some time.(It rarely happens when the remote is in my hands).
While watching it i realised that it was going to be one of the best dewy eyed and captivating piece of interview of the season.Many of my friends were in deep respect for him from then.But somehow,i felt some of his concepts quite shallow!Not that i abhor SRK,i love his talent on screen!!On the show he was asked by karan johar whether people misinterpret him due to lack of communication.To this he replied-"Yes,that do happen with me due to which i usually end up with broken friendships.But,i feel that if you love somebody and care for then,you don't need to say it.You just love them.You don't need to tell them every time that,hey..I LOVE YOU...hello(on picking up phone)..I LOVE YOU..I CARE FOR YOU.you don't have to say i love u.....even in my movies i have a big issue saying mei tumse mohhbat krta hun..agar krte ho toh kehne ki zarurt nahi hoti,agar pad gyi toh mohhbat nhi hai!!"
Whereas,a few days ago i was watching a famous chick flick,My best friend's wedding.While watching ,i came over an interesting and precisely ironical(to the above situation) dialogue said by the one of the protagonist in the movie(the male counterpart of Julia Roberts) which caught my attention.This guy was talking to his best friend(Julia Roberts,who started to realise that she was in love with him when he told about his plans on marrying some other girl).He said-"..if you love someone,you say it,you say it right there,out loud.Otherwise the moment just passes you by..."
Now,personally speaking i agree with the latter part.As far as i think about it,i would choose to say it loudly to one and all that i love them,be it my friends,my family or the love of my life.I wonder why do people just don't let out things even if they feel so.I have friends who have a lot more to say,to show affection,to show care but they just don't ,pretending that they hardly care or they hardly feel anything.But they fail to understand that it causes a dilemma for the opposite person(i have been a victim of it quite a lot of times).They leave the other person in imbroglio whether their love is reciprocated in the same manner as they do or not.I am not asking people to love the same way as they get BUT atleast some(even a small amount of it)kind of affection is always expected.As it is always said,no relation can ever work if its just one sided!!!Moreover,i have even seen people showing up no care and affection just because they want the opposite person to get a hint himself.But seriously guys,it doesn't happen..not even a minutest bit of it.Nowadays,when you would see people showing affection just coz' of their own personal benefit,you cant easily recognize the friends and foes among them,so you need to speak up,speak now.Moreover it makes the other person feel so happy about the fact that yes they are blessed;they have people around them who love them for whatever they are!!So guys just buck up..just show everyone how much you care for them!!!
As far as i am concerned,i would do anything..anything..(millionth of times) ..to show my loved ones that i care..i love them.Maybe it would be my words which would be the most helpful tool to communicate the love to them.But as far i as i know myself,i know i am damn expressive.If i care,i will show it.If i am angry.i would show that too.Moreover when it comes to the other shore of communication,i gave a lot of thought to it and is sick of always being the one who has to make the effort,from now on if i can't be met half away then they can drop away.i am just so much pissed off of this "unrequited love".So.....
"If u luv me, say it. If u trust me, do it. If u want me, show it. If u need me, prove it"
And now for you my dear friends,just don't think..ACT...SPEAK NOW and spread smiles everyone around you by your words!!!:) :)
FIRE AWAY!!!
Au revoir
~~lil miss sunshine,PS
Maybe someone would come up with an answer!!!
A few weeks ago,i was randomly switching over channels on my idiot box.Suddenly,i came through this repeat telecast of koffee with karan with Shahrukh Khan invited over for chat.Atlast,this ceased my habit of flipping over channels endlessly for some time.(It rarely happens when the remote is in my hands).
While watching it i realised that it was going to be one of the best dewy eyed and captivating piece of interview of the season.Many of my friends were in deep respect for him from then.But somehow,i felt some of his concepts quite shallow!Not that i abhor SRK,i love his talent on screen!!On the show he was asked by karan johar whether people misinterpret him due to lack of communication.To this he replied-"Yes,that do happen with me due to which i usually end up with broken friendships.But,i feel that if you love somebody and care for then,you don't need to say it.You just love them.You don't need to tell them every time that,hey..I LOVE YOU...hello(on picking up phone)..I LOVE YOU..I CARE FOR YOU.you don't have to say i love u.....even in my movies i have a big issue saying mei tumse mohhbat krta hun..agar krte ho toh kehne ki zarurt nahi hoti,agar pad gyi toh mohhbat nhi hai!!"
Whereas,a few days ago i was watching a famous chick flick,My best friend's wedding.While watching ,i came over an interesting and precisely ironical(to the above situation) dialogue said by the one of the protagonist in the movie(the male counterpart of Julia Roberts) which caught my attention.This guy was talking to his best friend(Julia Roberts,who started to realise that she was in love with him when he told about his plans on marrying some other girl).He said-"..if you love someone,you say it,you say it right there,out loud.Otherwise the moment just passes you by..."
Now,personally speaking i agree with the latter part.As far as i think about it,i would choose to say it loudly to one and all that i love them,be it my friends,my family or the love of my life.I wonder why do people just don't let out things even if they feel so.I have friends who have a lot more to say,to show affection,to show care but they just don't ,pretending that they hardly care or they hardly feel anything.But they fail to understand that it causes a dilemma for the opposite person(i have been a victim of it quite a lot of times).They leave the other person in imbroglio whether their love is reciprocated in the same manner as they do or not.I am not asking people to love the same way as they get BUT atleast some(even a small amount of it)kind of affection is always expected.As it is always said,no relation can ever work if its just one sided!!!Moreover,i have even seen people showing up no care and affection just because they want the opposite person to get a hint himself.But seriously guys,it doesn't happen..not even a minutest bit of it.Nowadays,when you would see people showing affection just coz' of their own personal benefit,you cant easily recognize the friends and foes among them,so you need to speak up,speak now.Moreover it makes the other person feel so happy about the fact that yes they are blessed;they have people around them who love them for whatever they are!!So guys just buck up..just show everyone how much you care for them!!!
As far as i am concerned,i would do anything..anything..(millionth of times) ..to show my loved ones that i care..i love them.Maybe it would be my words which would be the most helpful tool to communicate the love to them.But as far i as i know myself,i know i am damn expressive.If i care,i will show it.If i am angry.i would show that too.Moreover when it comes to the other shore of communication,i gave a lot of thought to it and is sick of always being the one who has to make the effort,from now on if i can't be met half away then they can drop away.i am just so much pissed off of this "unrequited love".So.....
"If u luv me, say it. If u trust me, do it. If u want me, show it. If u need me, prove it"
And now for you my dear friends,just don't think..ACT...SPEAK NOW and spread smiles everyone around you by your words!!!:) :)
FIRE AWAY!!!
Au revoir
~~lil miss sunshine,PS
